Monday, August 23, 2010

The Narrative

As you can see by the pics I posted last week, Kate did great on her first day of Kindergarten! She was nervous, but we had the opportunity to spend a half hour in her classroom by ourselves with her teacher on Monday, which really helped calm her nerves. This was a big relief to me as she had quite a few tears and conversations with us in recent weeks about how she never wants to grow up, she never wants to leave her preschool environment, and didn't want to be a Kindergartener. :(

Thankfully, the morning went off without a hitch...for her anyway. Mommy and Daddy had to deal with dead batteries in the camera, Mommy's car's power steering almost going out completely on the way to school, and forgetting Kate's backpack. :)

She was a little hesitant to introduce herself to her classmates, so I helped with that. She was a little disappointed when she climbed up into the loft and the boys up there didn't talk to her. But then I reminded her that all the kids in her class were in the same preschool class together, so they all knew each other and were happy to be together after a week or so apart. She went and joined some girls who were playing ponies and sat on the edge of their circle. She watched for a few minutes while Mommy and Jack walked around the classroom (and Daddy drove home to get power steering fluid and her backpack!). I glanced over to see how she was doing and she stood up, walked to the center of the group, took a pony out of the pile and started playing along. (Yay!) I checked on her a few minutes later and she smiled at me and said "Mommy! They are letting me play!" (which made me take a HUGE swallow so as not to burst into tears b/c she is so dang sweet.)

Daddy made it back and saved the day. We took pics at her cubby, gave her a hug and kiss, and headed out the door. She ran back to us for "one more hug and kiss" which made me have to wipe my eyes in her hair while I hugged her. I couldn't even speak at that point. I was so excited for her and proud!!! She was so brave and confident. I wish I could bottle it sometimes and take a dose myself.

She loves Kindergarten so much that she doesn't want me picking her up on MWF at 2:30, when the "official" Kindergarten day ends. Instead, she wants to stay with her classmates, play outside, and have fun with "Chris" (the twenty-something man who is there in the afternoons with the kids who dresses crazy and is fun like a barrel full of monkeys. The kids LOVE him!) We are still working on a compromise about this b/c it is hard for Mommy not to have her home with me on MWF afternoons. We'll see. Most importantly, she loves it and is finding her place among new friends!

3 comments:

Kelly said...

Love that your girl has taken to school so well. I knew she'd be great! I can't wait to talk to her about it. ;)

melissa said...

That's awesome! WTG Kate!

Christina Schmidt said...

First days are always hard. We totally did not have batteries the first day last year either and I was so worked up over it! Glad Kate is being so courageous!